Over the holidays, I found myself thinking about friendship, and about how friends shape our possibilities.
Some suggest that our drive as humans, in large measure, is to complete ourselves, to self-actualize. One way that we accomplish this as we move through life is through relationships with others. At their best, our family and friends become mirrors that reflect our self back toward us, and windows that allow us to see new ways of being.
And so it was that I found myself walking around the lakes at Byrd Park with one of my oldest, closest friends, and our families. Matt and I became roommates just after college, and I have relied on his easy humor, deep counsel and level-headed perspectives on everything from dating to politics. We've walked the streets of New York, Washington, Cairo and Beirut together. He's been a sound mirror, and a provocative window. A short walk closer to home with Matt, his wife Kristen, his son Lucas and my own family reinforced the value of our friendship.